Words

It's interesting how words can affect a person's mood THAT easily.. I realised that casually spoken words can have that big an impact on a person, especially when the friendship is close and sometimes words are used jestingly. The speaker may think that yeah, it's meant to be a joke, but the thing is they do not know that they've hurt the person in concern. What's worse is that the person do not really like to tick them off but rather keep it to himself. As a result, they think that he can take those jokes and thus continue along the line not knowing that sometimes it's too much to bear.

How I wish to tell the truth straight into the face, but the thing is, I hate to say, the friendship isn't that close to the extent that I can really say what I want. There are too many factors to consider. First and foremost is whether they want to listen and secondly, whether they are willing to understand and implement the changes without seriously affecting the friendship.

It hurts to take so many stressors at one time, and there's really a limit before things get horrendously blown out of proportion. I am but a human. Geez... how I wish such stuff did not need to cross my life. This is too naive a thinking, but then... sometimes... ignorance is bliss...